“Above all, they want dreams” Max, 33 years old, is an escort girl on declic.org.
With pleasure and pride. How did you get started? I had a regular job in the social sector. My boyfriend and I were looking for a swingers club. It was my fantasy.
That's how we started. I loved sleeping with men and he loved watching. I met a girl there who told me about the escort girl concept and I found it wonderful.
Play with men, give them pleasure and get paid for it. Amazing !
It had nothing to do with the girls I saw on the streets of Antwerp. I told myself that this was exactly what I wanted to do.
So I published my first ads.
Weren't you afraid of bad encounters?
At the beginning, yes! You never know who you'll run into, and I could find myself in the basements doing really strange things. I also thought it was all mafia and organized crime.
But reality has nothing to do with that. For me anyway. While working for someone has its advantages, particularly in terms of safety, I have my husband and some very good drivers.
Who are your clients ?
A few years ago, escort girls were reserved for business men. It was customary to offer this type of service to clients during major negotiations. Today, everyone has access to the internet and there are big differences between prices and services.
Most of my clients are businessmen, but I also have an electrician or a window cleaner. Sometimes they want sex, sometimes just a chat.
Above all, they want dreams!
What do you do during these meetings?
The first time, sex is always there. I have never had a date without any sexual contact. Over an hour, we have 15 minutes of sex and the rest of conversation, attention...
“Escort stays”, I only participate if I like the person enough. I would never go on a trip with a man I don't know!
But it doesn't happen to me that often: I have to take care of my son and my daughter.
Do you sometimes indulge in funny fantasies?
No, just little games, like serving me things to eat while blindfolded or playing hide and seek in a hotel. I also knew a man who wanted us to pretend that he was coming to interview me, or that I was playing a little girl and sucking my thumb...
Are you doing this for fun?
I started for fun and I want to continue with this in mind. You know, I graduated and had a very good job, with good pay.
These extras were not essential but they provided additional comfort. And it's only two nights a week, where I do what I want with the people I want! So it started as a hobby, but it took more and more of my time.
And, as I have two children and my job was quite stressful, I quit to devote myself entirely to it.
Do your loved ones know?
My friends, yes, not my former colleagues. It's still pretty poorly accepted, and I think it always will be. People really struggle with the “sex + money” combination. As for my mother, she even told me that she would have done exactly the same thing if she had known it existed!
My children of course don't know yet, but I will explain to them when they are older. Because I remain very proud of what I do! [Comments collected by H. N. for declic.org] remember
